Caring for an Elderly Loved One

Caring for an Elderly loved one:

In the past few years, it has become more and more prevalent to
see family members taking on the role of Caretaker to an elderly
loved one. Accepting the role as caregiver to an elderly relative is
not always an easy decision to make. There are many factors to be
considered before taking on the role of primary Caretaker. It is a
decision that should be thoroughly discussed with the patient and
other family members. Assuming the role of primary Caretaker may
be the most selfless thing you may ever do. Below are a few
suggestions to help you in making your decision.

Things to consider before becoming primary Caretaker:

•Make sure you are aware of all of your relative’s medical conditions.
• Speak with the patient’s doctor or other health care provider about
current medications and ensure you have the proper directions.
• Research your loved one’s medical problems and try to understand as
best you can the diseases they have.
• Speak to your loved one about you taking care of them. Make sure they
will be comfortable with it and that they understand what you would be
doing
• Think of yourself. Is this something you can tolerate emotionally,
physically, and psychologically?
• Consider whether or not you will be able to devote enough time and
energy to the patient.
• Consider the patients feelings, and what they really want.

If the decision has been made to care for an elderly
relative at home, below you will find some
recommendations of things to do before starting care:

•If competent to make their own medical decisions, speak with the
patient and ask them if they would like to put in place an advance
directive or living will. An advance directive is a legal document that
allows the patient to decide what medical care they would like to
receive if something may happen to them and they are not able to
communicate their wishes. A living will is a type of advanced
directive that allows for more detailed instructions for a Caregiver or
doctor on what to do or not to do in the case of the patient’s
incapacitation.
• If the patient is not competent to make his or her own medical
decisions you may have to assume this responsibility. The person
that assumes this role is called a DPOA-Durable Power Of Attorney.
The DPOA has the legal right to make health care, medical
treatment, and custody decisions on behalf of the patient.
• Explore your options. See what, if any, types of assistance you
and the patient may be eligible for.
• Research home care companies. Find out which would best fit the
needs of both the patient and you.
If you need any further assistance please feel free to call our office
or, send us an email and we will be happy to assist you.

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